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How to Keep the Love Alive

     In every relationship, it is undeniably true that it is difficult to keep the love alive. It applies to some people, but for some, it is just a myth. Some people believe in love and that keeping it alive is never impossible. Well, this article might give you hope. Here are some of the ways to keep the love alive:
1. Give each other time -
     Togetherness strengthens every relationship. Keeping your love requires giving each other equal time. You should give each other importance by giving a balanced time between your work and your love life. If you have been so busy with work, then it is important that you compensate it with your partner. Time is the most precious gift you can offer. You should give each other little time to have small talks and share your feelings. You can also go out together and unwind. You can watch movies at the movie house or just stay at home and just hold hands like you have never done for the longest time.
2. Get rid of high expectations -
       Too much expectation can only cause disappointments and frustrations. If you want to keep the love alive, it means you should not expect anything from each other. When expectations are unfulfilled, it can ruin the relationship. Small fights can end up to big fights. It can worsen the situation. Before setting up some real expectations, it is best that you see first and determine whether the expectations are within your partner's capacity. You should know whether these expectations can be met. It should be a mutual feeling. You should also consider yourself if you can fulfill your partner's expectations as well. Choose what to expect, because sometimes, your expectations may be beyond reality and more of a fantasy already.
3. Accept one another -
       You should also take into consideration that acceptance is one of the main keys to keep the love alive. You should learn to accept each other from the very start. It is very impossible to love someone without accepting everything that he or she is. You should learn to accept each other's flaws and mistakes. Always put it in mind that nobody is perfect. You just have to accept some things that you know you cannot change. Loving equals acceptance.

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