Second Chance at Love
Whether it's your fault or not, breaking up with someone you love is always a painful and frustrating experience for anyone to go through. There is no perfect relationship. Everyone commits mistakes. But everyone deserves second chances, too. If you think and you know that you screwed up in your relationship, then you're on the right track. Accepting your wrongdoings is the first step in getting her to like you again.
Do Not Hold Grudges
If you really want to get her back, then you have to remain friends with her or at least act civilly towards her. You don't want to cut off all your ties. If you meet her at a party, try to act as normally as you can. Keep your conversations friendly and casual. Again, never bring up the past or mistakes of the past, for that matter. If you see her with a date, don't get upset. Or you'll just do some stupid things again that will risk your chance of getting her back. If you can't stand seeing her with another guy, the best thing to do is just leave.
Handle the Breakup Well
Most guys will probably end up getting drunk every day of their life. Be the exception. Girls admire men who are mature enough to handle various situations such as a breakup. Instead of going out every night with your drinking buddies, why not think about other ways to improve yourself? You can also get a makeover if you want to. Do something to make you proud of yourself and she'll eventually see that too. In time, you'll earn her respect.
Improve Yourself
One of the reasons why she broke up with you might be because you aren't the same man she fell in love with. If you want to get her back, you need to bring back that gentleman in you. Maybe you got used to taking her for granted or you might have evolved into a jealous and bickering boyfriend. If you know you have a problem with your behaviour and attitude then do something about it. Bring back that man that she fell madly in love with.
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